Life doesn’t always go as planned. One moment, everything seems to be falling into place, and the next, you’re hit with an unexpected setback. That’s exactly what happened to Sophia, who shared her personal story on the latest episode of Becoming Wealthy.
Sophia had spent weeks preparing to join her high school soccer team. She was reassured it was a no-cut sport, built connections with teammates, and embraced the challenge of learning something new. Then, just two weeks in, everything changed. Suddenly, cuts were introduced—and she was out.
But this episode isn’t just about getting cut from a team. It’s about how to handle disappointment, advocate for yourself, and move forward with confidence.
When the Rules Change Mid-Game
One of the hardest parts of Sophia’s experience wasn’t just the cut itself—it was the way it happened. She was given a false sense of security, told she was on the team, and then blindsided by a change in direction.
“If they had just said from the beginning that there would be cuts, I would have understood. But instead, I was led to believe one thing and then told something completely different.”
— Sophia Bosch
Unfortunately, situations like this happen all the time—not just in sports, but in school, work, and life in general. Rules change, expectations shift, and we’re left scrambling to make sense of it all.
Speaking Up When Things Feel Wrong
Instead of accepting the decision in silence, Sophia chose to speak up. She addressed the situation directly with her coach, making sure her voice was heard.
“I wasn’t upset about being cut—I was upset about how it was handled. And I needed them to know that.”
— Sophia Bosch
As her mom, Michelle, pointed out, learning to advocate for yourself is one of the most valuable skills you can develop. Whether it’s in sports, business, or life, being able to express concerns in a professional way is key to growth.
“This is what professional people do—when they say they’re going to do something, they follow through.”
— Michelle Bosch
Turning Setbacks into Opportunities
Getting cut wasn’t the end of the road for Sophia—it was a redirection. Now, she has the opportunity to use the extra time to focus on what truly aligns with her long-term goals.
If you’ve ever faced a situation where something didn’t go your way, ask yourself:
What can I learn from this experience? Is there an opportunity here that I hadn’t considered before? How can I use my voice to create change for the future?
The truth is, we won’t always get what we want, even when we put in the effort. But we can control how we respond.
Final Thoughts
This episode of Becoming Wealthy is a powerful reminder that setbacks aren’t failures—they’re opportunities to grow, shift direction, and build resilience.
Listen to the full episode here: www.becomingwealthy.com